Good advice + clever metaphor = a wink, a grin, and two thumbs up!

Good advice but it's really just the commonsense stuff. Doesn't offer the kind of advice that's most useful: how to setup the game.

For myself, before hooking up with my girlfriend, I managed to have a few adventures with some wonderful gals (as did my girlfriend, apparently). I think my threesomes were - by far - the greatest single events in my... existence. With the right people, they are funner than anything imaginable. Best night of my life was spent in an Italian vineyard with two lovely girls from Oxford. :)

My girlfriend and I want to add another female someday. She says she wants to be officially "on the lookout" when we take our trip to France in May. That way, she will have a fresh environment to be debaucherous in, and there won't be as much potential for emotional complication. Seeing as how a fling in a foreign land is the safest scenario there is for a serious couple; less potential for anything going beyond the casual (she isn't polyamorous like me).

I'm going to FRANCE !